Mauie Flores

I always listen to Mo Twister on the Magic on the way to work. Today, there was a caller who initiated a discussion about loving men who had had sex with other women in previous relationships (or at least getting affected with his sexually active past). This girl goes, "I don't have a number" that meant that she won't get affected even if her guy had already done it with countless of other women before her, no questions asked. The moment I heard her, I rolled up my eyes and a thought bubble went out of my head that said "Hmp! Ipokrita!" Stupid girl, how could you not get affected?

Let me first define what "getting affected" means to me. To me, it means that I still love my man with all my heart but I will definitely get hurt with his past. What I mean is, I won't act like stone and just tell him that it's OK because it's not. But it won't mean that I will love him less than before I heard about his past.

Here's my point of view: I don't care about the number BUT I will really be pissed off if he tells me that it's just sex and nothing deeper than that. Maybe I'll let the high school experiences pass because it's all part of the sexual discovery phase that men go through (maybe some women too but that excludes me!). Or I can forget about up to 2 one-night-stands, anything more than that is just so disturbing. I think that making out casually with different women says more about a man's psychological state of mind. So why won't I get affected at all? It's a different story if my man tell me that it was all part of his failed relationships. At least I can sense some love in the air and not just plain pure libido.

Mo says that 4 will be a safe number for him. More than that and he will think twice about the girl he's dating. How about you? What's your number? Guys and girls, I'd love to read about what you think.